You’ve finally wrapped your head around the fact that you’re into tied up and gagged. It was hard at first. You liked it but then again you were reluctant to admit it. So far so good, you’re enjoying it. You have no qualms telling everyone within your social circles that you’re into self-gagging. Hold on for a second though. The excitement shouldn’t make you forget that there are actual rules around gagging and blindfolds. They aren’t just rules but basics you must never forget or ignore. Read on to learn more.
Consent Is Everything
Yes, yes your partner is tied up and gagged, which means they are at your mercy. That doesn’t mean though that you should do as you please. Whatever you do should be within the confines of express consent. That is, be on the same page before you tie each other. More importantly, be on the same page whether or not sex is part of the game. The last thing you want to hear after gagging is having your partner complain that they were short changed. Once you’re clear on consent, there’s a ton of things you can do and have your mind blown away as you enjoy each other.
Communication Is Key
It so happens that you may need to communicate something while you’re gagged. It could be that the cuffs you have on are too tight. It could also be that you’re drying up so you need more lube. Communicating all these while gagged is not easy. Your best bet therefore, is to find a way you can communicate with your partner through gestures. This is important because it can go a long way to make things easier should an emergency arise.
One of the most effective ways of communicating is simply by opening and closing your fists. You can also include a squeaky toy. Press it several times and have it squeak to let your partner know that they need to stop something or that they need to untie you.
Choose A Reliable Partner
If you can find a partner already into tied up gagging, then good for you. You can be certain that you’ll both enjoy each other’s company solely because you won’t have too much explaining to do. You can alternatively, take time to teach your amateur partner the basics.